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Underage Rapist gets “Exceptional sentence”

Sunday, July 27th, 2008

A 17 year old was sentenced this week to more than three years in juvenile custody for the gang rape of a Bellevue, Wa girl in November of 2007.

The three year sentence is considered “exceptional” and was doled out by the judge because he felt the boy exhibited a lack of remorse for his actions. The boy denied his actions, calling the girl a liar. His only remorse seems to have come at the tail end of his sentencing and had nothing to do with concern for the girl. If he’d cooperated and pleaded guilty he could have gotten off with a mere 30-40 weeks of juvenile custody.

Let me let that sink in for a moment.

Four boys picked up the girl at her home. They took her to a park. They got her drunk. They each raped her in the backseat of the car. Then, as if that were not bad enough, they bragged about in on the internet.

They gang-raped her. They bragged about in online. One of them got her pregnant. All that and the worst sentence any of them are likely to get is three years of juvie and that’s only because the boy showed a lack of remorse. In fact, one of the four is going to serve 15-36 weeks because he cooperated. Want to bet he serves just 15? Even if he does serve the full 36 weeks, that’s what, a whole 9 months for participating in gang raping a girl? Oh yeah, and did I mention that in the emails recovered from their MySpace accounts they’d discussed killing the girl to keep her from testifying against them? How proud the parents must be of these boys.

I find that completely outrageous. I personally believe they should have tried these boys as adults. Let them go to big-boy prison and find out first hand what it’s like to be gang-raped. What kind of message are we sending with this kind of sentence? I’ll tell you. We’re saying, “Hey boys, go out and rape now while you’re young. In the worst case scenario you’ll spend three years in juvenile custody.”

As I mentioned earlier, the girl became pregnant. It’s not surprising that she opted for an abortion. What is surprising is that the mother of Exceptional Boy said he was quite angry that the girl had aborted the baby because abortion is apparently against his religion.

WTF?!?!?

“And rape doesn’t?” asked Judge Hayden, getting no response.”

Furthermore the family discussed the issue and had agreed that the boy should marry the girl and raise the child.

I repeat, WTF?!?!?

I’m sure it’s every young girl’s dream to marry the man who raped her.

The boy’s mother is Russian and was speaking through a Russian interpreter. This makes me wonder if he immigrated or was born in the US because if he immigrated I say when his three years is done, ship him back to Russia and never allow him entry back into the US. Is that wrong of me?

I don’t know about you, but this just pisses me right off.

America’s throw-away society…

Friday, February 15th, 2008

craftsman.jpgIt was with sadness that I read today about the closure of Adams TV in Fremont. Adams TV was founded in 1952 by the current owner’s father, a former radio repairman. The owner, according to the PI, said, “”We live in a throwaway society. It got to where I just couldn’t fight that anymore.”

The sad thing is that he’s right, we do live in a throwaway society. I know many people, for example, who throw out their old printer rather than purchase a new toner cartridge and who can blame them? After all, it’s usually cheaper to buy a new printer than it is to replace the toner cartridge.

There was a time when you could easily find a shoe repair shop but these days you’re lucky if you can find one in any given city. I can remember buying good quality shoes and taking them into the shoe shop to have heel and toe protectors put on. I can even remember taking shoes in to have the soles replaced. With the advent of shoe stores such as Payless people just toss their shoes these days and buy new ones instead. These are obviously not people who’ve ever gone without shoes. Not that I have, either, but my mother brought me up to appreciate quality. My mother, whom I lovingly refer to as “the Toucan Sam of the shopping world.” Honestly, the woman who can sniff out a bargain one hundred miles away. Mother taught me to shop at “good stores” like Macy’s and Dillard’s and Nordstrom’s. She introduced me to quality and she showed me how to shop the bargains. My mother wasn’t afraid to shop at the thrift store when money was tight. She knew that wealthy women and “good stores” often gave them new or gently worn items. No matter your means there are ways to dress well.

I have a lovely pair of black leather Cole Hahn shoes. Each winter I take them out and lovingly polish them. They were expensive shoes. I’ve owned them for a good 10 years and they still look fantastic. I’m not anal about them I just polish them at the beginning of each winter season, giving them a coat of Neatsfoot oil to protect them from the rain. If I paid $100 for them new then they’ve cost me about $10 a year. I’d say they’ve been worth the money, wouldn’t you?

Here in my little town of Pflugerville, Tx, there is an old lawn mower repair shop off of main street. The old fellow who works there reminds me of my granddad. He’s gruff and growly voiced and there isn’t a lawn gadget he can’t repair. Sadly, he’s one of a dying breed, the master craftsman. Sometimes I look at antiques and think about how well they must have been made and maintained to still be around. Then I wonder about what we are teaching our kids about the value of things. Not just in terms of price but also what it took to make those things, how to care for them and what they mean to us.

My mother is the buyer of forsaken treasures. She loves a good garage sale and can’t stop herself from buying the thrown-away possessions of little old grandmas who once spent many an hour painstakingly crocheting tiny little children to bestow upon family members as Christmas ornaments. Mother will wander into a garage sale and listen as grandchildren tell her how their granny had crocheted this or knitted that item. How this china had been their grandparents or that fishing rod had belonged to their great-grandfather and yet there they stood selling these items for a few dollars. Tossed aside for something new and shiny.

There was a time when people who couldn’t afford to go to college would apprentice with a master craftsmen, thereby learning a trade. These days if you don’t go to college your only option appears to be a lifetime of minimum wage or a whole lot of luck. There is a severe lack of pride in every day work. Remember when you could layaway big items and pay on them monthly? Now we just throw it on a credit card and bury ourselves in debt.

In the old days you bought “heirloom” quality pieces of furniture that would be passed down from generation to generation. These days a piece of furniture is lucky to last a few years.

There are times when I have to ask myself if we’re really advancing as a society or if we’re only kidding ourselves. What’s next? Disposable people? Perhaps that’s why a person can just walk in and shoot up a school? They’re failing to see the value.

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Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies…

Tuesday, October 9th, 2007

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OLYMPIA — A sharply divided state Supreme Court has ruled that a law that bars political candidates from deliberately making false statements about their opponents violates the First Amendment right of free speech.

In a 5-4 ruling, the high court affirmed a state Court of Appeals ruling that overturned the law. The measure was enacted by the Legislature in 1999, a year after a similar ban on false statements involving initiatives and other ballot measures was thrown out by the state Supreme Court.

I sent a link to this article to my partner yesterday, which led to quite a discussion (albeit mostly on his part). I’m lucky to have such a smart partner because it’s easy to get angry about an issue like this without fully thinking it through. What follows is the gist of the conversation.


While on the face of it, it may seem as though the Supreme Court has indeed given politicians free reign to lie, to say so would be a gross oversimplification of the issues at hand. In fact it just might be an example of where the constitution doesn’t always agree, in letter of law, with what we think is a decent and upstanding position.

Do we really want to put the government in the position of verifying everything candidates say? They already can’t properly administer health care or social security. And if a candidate, once elected, is found to have made a concrete, verifiably false statement about his/her opponent, do we strip them of their office? If so, do we put the opponent in his/her place? How egregious of a lie would it have to be to go to that trouble? Any lie at all? A big lie? A small lie? A tiny white lie? Do we have to show that the lie was made knowingly? If so how?

It makes me sick to my stomach that any individual should take advantage of the legal system to absolve themselves of mud-slinging, filthy tactics, or any other manner of what I, and what I consider decent people would consider to be, underhanded tactics. And yes, if that is what we truly desired, we could probably (if enough citizens would get off their asses), make it the government’s job to verify everything that everyone ever says, or even just our candidates.

In my heart of hearts, I might even believe that that would be a worthy goal. But how would we implement it? I’m not defending the tenants of the law or the implementation of it as listed in the article by any means. I just think that regardless of what the best and most earnest ideals for a government of the people might be, they can only really do so much. There is much incumbent upon every citizen to seek out truth - to evaluate historical perspectives and speeches by candidates. To seek out information about voting records. To do more than watch commercials. To, by their participation and voting, and god forbid initiatives, ensure a legal system by which such information is readily available to use to make such decisions. And then, for good or ill, for each to decide for him/herself.

Do most people, including me, do this? Ever? Probably not.

I’m no legal scholar, but to my understanding, there theoretically exists within our legal system, the ability to “recall” any elected official, for whatever reason, should we as the people find him/her to have violated our trust. How often have any of us felt strongly enough to do something along those lines? To hear any of us talk, any one of us certainly has felt strongly enough about one or another elected official to support such an action. Yet I can count on less than one hand’s worth of fingers my knowledge of any such actions.

In the concept of a government of the people, by the people, and for the people, sad though I am to say, the most important missing link these days seems to be the “by” part.

If you lie and it’s okay by law, will you still be on the bad kids list for Santa?

Quite possibly. The law doesn’t guarantee ethics, or morals.

Do I believe that ideally that would include truth? Sure. In theory, within our system, we could, if we so chose, demand that the laws be structured to enforce that. But it’s easy to write a law that says “you must be truthful”. Writing laws, and creating governing bodies, establishing standards for, and collecting taxes to support such an infrastructure? Would we really vote for that? Maybe, maybe not. Again, the Utopian optimist in me says “shouldn’t we strive for that?” The realist in me says “It is less expensive, and frankly, much more effective, to have an informed, intelligent, educated, compassionate and participatory populace, researching, discussing, deciding, and voting on this stuff.

But in the end, a true utopia doesn’t need government. And as far as I can see, in the history of what we consider to be largish societies, that’s never worked out.

So why institute this law in the first place?

Why indeed. The decision of the court seems to say just that, in their ruling of it as unconstitutional

The problem with a Utopian society is that it can only succeed without people.

Well said. To paraphrase Dante, “Hell is other people”.

Again, I’m no scholar, but as I remember it, the constitution says “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

The blogging site, Livejournal has, over time, and particularly recently, brought up changes to their policies which some have decried as “violations of free speech”. Would I, personally, find it offensive and draconian some of their policies? Absolutely. Would I judge that Livejournal, as a private company, and one which membership in is completely voluntary, has violated any constitutional rights? Probably not. This argument highlights the difference between what people want/think the First Amendment to be/is and what is actually says. Though the First Amendment says that Congress shall make no law regarding free speech it makes no provision saying that private entities or companies have to permit free speech. And though I might be irritated by some actions by Livejournal and similar private companies, they are not MAKING LAWS. Your participation in the resources they create is voluntary and is not related to any government laws.

The majority opinion in this case is characterized as, “The notion that the government, rather than the people, may be the final arbiter of truth in political debate is fundamentally at odds with the First Amendment,” Justice James Johnson wrote for the majority, joined by Justices Charles Johnson, Richard Sanders and Susan Owens.”

So they aren’t exactly saying you can lie legally, they are just saying they cannot police it.

Exactly. I think they are saying that, it goes against the constitution, for a government entity to decide that THEY will decide, even based on something that is seemingly as straightforward as whether something is a lie or not, what speech is protected and which is not. If we leave it up to the government to decide what is protected speech, who decides if how they are doing that is “right”. Do I think we should tolerate politicians or elected officials lying? Absolutely not. Should we rely on the government to police that? In general principal, and also given my general assessment of their ability to do almost anything else, absolutely not.

Nobody ever said, “Will you please pass a law so I will stop doing something I don’t want to do?’ They always say, ‘Please pass a law so that THEY will stop doing something I don’t want them to do.”

~Manuel O’Kelly in Robert A. Heinlein’s “The Moon is a Harsh Mistress”

Perhaps politicians aren’t lying at all. Perhaps they are just practicing misdirection. :-)

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